You must have seen or known many people who obsessed too much over finding the right guy or girl to marry and eventually married the wrong girl or guy. It also happens in life that people who give up their search to find the right partner and just enjoy life, all of a sudden find just the right guy or girl.
From my experience I can safely say that if you want to achieve some big goal in life, the only way to achieve it is to become detached from the result. If you get attached to the result, your emotions get in the way of your success and give you a result that you don’t want.
Just imagine you’re playing golf against Tiger Woods. There will be a huge difference if you lag behind him. You’d be severely under pressure, but if Tiger Woods lags, he being a pro, won’t budge even a little. Because if he got annoyed at every wrong shot he would never have become a pro.
The only way to win against Tiger Woods is to become more detached from the result. If you get a shot wrong, just be calm. It’s not the result, it’s the way you handle your mistake.
This detachment will make you silent and you can concentrate more on the ball rather than who you are up against.
Get detached from the result and win – #FeelHearty
